Mediate.com University

This workshop introduces experienced mediators to the field of adult family mediation, also known as elder mediation, in its many forms, including decision making about the well-being of senior family members and those who care for them; family owned business disputes; disputes about jointly-held property; and inheritance disputes. In this experiential workshop, we will explore:

• The universe and unique aspects of adult family mediation 
• “Normal” adult development and changes with aging 
• The art of communicating with seniors 
• Ageism, stereotyping and the ethical issues related to bias 
• The adult family mediation process 
• Participation of the aging adult in mediation – issues of capacity, elder abuse, representation and accommodation 
• Mediator qualities – the role of mindfulness, understanding and compassion
• Skills to manage family dynamics and conversations 
• Ethical and legal issues unique to elder mediation
• Resources for aging adults and their families
• Mediating with multiple parties in litigated cases – family-owned business, trusts & estates, conservatorships and elder abuse
• Mindfulness and self-reflection
• Developing an adult family mediation practice
• Special issues for adult families: grief, apology and forgiveness